As a american citizen I never thought twice about how to support those who have a family member detained until it happened in our family. I feel for all families whom have someone detained and understand the hardships it causes. Prayer that helps me: Phillipians 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everhtin by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.